--- title: Choosing Your Wedding Monogram date: 2026-06-18T16:30:00-05:00 author: Leontine Linens canonical_url: "https://leontinelinens.com/linensense-blog/choosing-your-wedding-monogram" section: Blog --- # Your Wedding Monogram ## Choosing your Unique Arrangement Published on June 18, 2026 --- ### "We are here to work with you! Whatever monogram you design, for any space, should be a reflection of you." \- Talley Pike --- Though mostly decorative in modern times, a monogram remains a stamp of personal identity. It is a glance backwards to heritage and a gesture forward into the future. Given the history and myriad variations of monograms, you may be wondering where to begin when designing your own. At Leontine Linens, we've been turning initials into heirlooms since 1996. Read on and discover our guide to choosing your perfect monogram match. ![A diagram of a bed and monogram](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Choosing-Monograms/_lowRes/34884/Addison-Diagram-and-Pic-2.webp)#### Traditional Style The traditionally arranged monogram is the most classic. It features three letters, with the surname initial centered and enlarged, like so: **First Name | Last Name | Maiden or Middle Name** The diagram shows the placement of letters in the [Addison](https://leontinelinens.com/monograms/addison) monogram. This person's name could be Carly Mayfield Bolton, with her married last name's "B" centered. If you're a new bride taking your partner's last name, the traditional style is an excellent way to feature your shared initial prominently in spaces like the bedroom or formal dining room. ![A green napkin](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Choosing-Monograms/_lowRes/34886/Ruthie-Monogram-Napkin.webp)###### **Bending the Rules** Today, there are multiple ways a person may choose to shape their name. In addition to the traditional style, here are some common variations: For a married couple (modern): **Wife's First Name | Married Surname | Husband's First Name** For a dropped maiden name: **First Name | Married Surname | Middle Name** The napkin in the image, featuring the [Ruthie](https://leontinelinens.com/monograms/ruthie) monogram, showcases Talley's married name, Jane Talley Pike. Talley dropped her maiden name to keep her middle name. ![A diagram of accessories and monogram](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Choosing-Monograms/_lowRes/34888/Andre-Diagram-and-Pic.webp)#### Straight-Across Style For a fresh take on tradition, the straight-across monogram offers a clean, easy-to-read option, like so: **First Name | Maiden or Middle Name | Last Name** The diagram shows the placement of letters in the [Andre](https://leontinelinens.com/monograms/andre) monogram. This person's name could be Madison Emily Prescott. The letters read left to right and are well-suited for guest towels and accessories. ![A white pillow](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Choosing-Monograms/_lowRes/34892/Kinsey-Pillow.webp)#### Two Letter (Cipher) Style A cipher is a graceful way to pair two initials where the letters overlap and intertwine with each other. Typically, it's used for **a First and Last Name**, omitting the middle initial, or to represent **two first** or **two last names**—perfect for couples who keep their respective surnames. Many brides choose a cipher monogram for table and bath linens, or for a bold take on bed linens, as seen with the [Kinsey](https://leontinelinens.com/monograms/kinsey) monogram. ![A white napkin with purple monogram](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Choosing-Monograms/_lowRes/34890/Freesia-Napkin.webp)#### Single Letter Style Decision-fatigued? The single-letter monogram offers a straightforward, one-and-done solution. Sharing a last name? Use that initial! The napkin in the image shows our lovely [Freesia ](https://leontinelinens.com/products/freesia-napkins)monogram style with the initial from Talley and Will Pike's shared last name. This monogram style is a good choice for narrower applications, including cocktail and table linens. --- ![A blue pillow with a light blue applique monogram](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Techniques-Parent/_lowRes/11872/Technique-Parent-Images-02.webp)#### The Leontine Way Modern personalization has become increasingly popular. Many brands monogram linens these days, so what distinguishes Leontine Linens? Our process. We celebrate artistry passed down through generations, carrying our design heritage forward. Every piece is made to order and hand-sewn at our skilled atelier, translating each client’s vision into linens that reflect their personal style. At the heart of our process are three defining techniques—embroidery, applique, and quilting—that together shape Leontine’s legacy of bespoke linens. [See our Techniques in Action](https://leontinelinens.com/technique) --- ##### More to Discover Explore our vast monogram library. To learn even more about monogram styles, visit our Monogram Guide. [Visit the Guide ](https://leontinelinens.com/monogram-guide) Or to browse our collection, visit the Monograms page. [See Monograms](https://leontinelinens.com/design-elements/monograms) It is our great joy to help you find your perfect monogram. [Contact us](https://leontinelinens.com/contact) to begin your journey. --- ![A collection of cocktail napkins](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Choosing-Monograms/_lowRes/34898/Cocktail-Flat-Lay.webp)Photo by Josh Brasted ## Related Content --- - [![A blue monogrammed napkin](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Elements-Monograms/_lowRes/9810/Anais-Monogram-Monograms-Feature.webp) Pages ### Monogram Guide](https://leontinelinens.com/monogram-guide) - [![Stack of linen boards fo table linens with plates](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Product-Accessories/_lowRes/19728/Linen-Boards-from-Linens-Book.webp)Blog // Leontine 101 Blog ### Table Linen Storage](https://leontinelinens.com/linensense-blog/table-linen-storage) - [![A woman setting napkins around a round table](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Setting-the-Table-with-Color/_lowRes/30950/Saffron-Dinner-Feature-BLOG.webp)Blog // Leontine 101 Blog ### Setting the Table with Color](https://leontinelinens.com/linensense-blog/setting-the-table-with-color) - [![A blue and white napkin and placemat on a dark wooden table](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Square-Placemat/_lowRes/30601/Jan-21-Table-Scenes-764-BLOG.webp)Blog // Leontine 101 Blog ### Square Placemats](https://leontinelinens.com/linensense-blog/square-placemats) - [![Linens and an iron](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/Linensense-Blog/Table-Linen-Care/_lowRes/20661/Laundering-Image-2_Paul-Costello.webp)Blog // Leontine 101 Blog ### Table Linen Care](https://leontinelinens.com/linensense-blog/table-linen-care) [Linensense Blog with Jane Scott Hodges](https://leontinelinens.com/about/linensense-blog)![Quilts](https://cdn2.leontinelinens.com/uploads/transforms/do-no-use/_lowRes/2898/Image-1.webp) ### Ready to create your own Leontine Linens? 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